COMMUNICATION GAP????

The day before yesterday,our family friend's 25 yrs old son ....... committed a suicide. Reason? Well, failure in love affair.The lad was loving a girl.The girl was also loving the boy but her parents refused their love story to proceed.As a result,the boy took sleeping pills and shifted from his residence for ever.We all are in a trauma..all are speechless..one of his friend said with a deep sorrow :" he was a very good guy, always ready to help others." The only bad thing in him was his anger.He never could control his anger.His mother said that before some days he visited all relatives one by one,as if to commit a suicide was preplanned.His father and sister are not in a position to tolerate this mishap.

I wonder that when this boy was taking sleeping pills,did not he think at least for a once about his parents,who dreamt a lot for their laadla 's future?Did not he think about his only and now lonely sister,for whom her brother was the Hero? The boy could have talked to any of his friends..why did not he trust anybody? Many questions are now will remain unanswered.

BUT today i think that his main problem was COMMUNICATION GAP.

I think Communication Gap is the biggest problem for ALL OF us.We dont trust each other so we dont trust ourselves also.Sometimes we are afraid of the society,sometimes friends..log kya kahenge???We dont have a habit to share.Sometimes we misunderstand eachother,sometimes we dont want to understand other's point of view..as if all are wrong..AND I AM THE BEST..
I think that many questions can be solved if sit together...if we listen to our beloveds patiently, no problem can last for longer..if we share our feelings with others,no COMMUNICATION GAP will be there , at least for us..

Lemme start this Communication ...I AM ready to share ..I AM ready to listen..are u?

KASAM....

Kasam khaayi thi kabhie hum ne tumhe bhool jaane ki..
socha tha ki ab to na jii paayenge hum ;
par be-imaan dil ne dhokha de diya,
dhadka kiya sirf tumhare naam se,
chen se ab to na mar bhi paayenge hum....
Shi. D

BEING NOSTALGIC :(

Summer vacation is on.Children and parents, especially moms are free birds now.Though it is unfair saying freebirds as these creatures are super busy these days.Super moms are flying to several coaching classes with their wards.

I happened to visit a friend's place before couple of days alongwith my daughter Manvita as my friend had arranged a bachcha party . Children were busy playing various games like housie,dumb sharods,passing the parcle and others. We,the moms were preparing snacks for bachcha party and talking on and on never ending subjects.One of us told that her son is going to swimming,chess,some science projects ; while the other said that her son is also taking the same coaching. one of us said that her daughter goes for a western dance,arts and crafts ,drawing and what not. After returning home, Manvita was telling Vivek about the party .I kept quiet as i was recalling my childhood days....

Gone are the days..when the word VACATION means only and only dhammal masti.We used to play ,play and play..there was NO certain time table to play.Anything any time was the only tagline . we all used to wake up early in the morning.( Even today, i wonder that why do children get up early in the vacations only?) We ,the vaanarsena,used to play outdoor games like gulli cricket,french cricket,badminton,marbles,bhamarda i.e.lattu .After the sun reches at its peak,we got back to our homes unwillngly,ofcourse. After having lunch again we used to gathered at any of us;house and yeh lo..again playing..this time its turn for indoor games like playing cards,carrom,chess,ludo,snakes and ladders,business etc. I still remember that i never liked to play cards,though i knew many games and was a good player so i played it just for my friends. ( my all friends were BOYS only at that time also,as there was not a single girl except me in our two blocks. Till the date ,i feel more comfortable with boys :) ) No cricket match was held without me (they had to include me to complete the 11 players team :)).after the sun sets we used to play hide and seek,i-spy (the game which we called ice pice)

EATING OUT : No wway..we hardly went out to eat . It was a luxury at that time .We enjoyed quite a lot eating burf gola and ganne ka ras.. SANTOSH SARBATWALA was our favourite vendor to purcase these mouth watering things.

We had no t.v. sets at that time as the revolution in entertainment was years away.so we read many books,comics,magazines for children..wow..

While recalling my these days how could i forget my school days also? Neha and Heena became my first friends who were girls :P. even today ,we are very good friends ,touch wood.Both of them are in US but distance could not make any distance among us. Rightnow ,i dont intend to write my school memories. It would take some more pages.. :P.

ay sh hhh..hh..listen.. shh hh..i can hear the jagjitsingh 's popular treck..Yeh daulat bhi le lo.yeh shauhrat bhi le lo...magar mujko lauta do bachpan ka ssawan ..woh kaagaz ki kashti ..woh baarish ka paani........

Can you hear it????

VAJAH...

DOSTI ME AMIRI GARIBI KO JAGAH
NAHI HOTI HAI....
SIRF DIL KI KAREEBI HI VAJAH
HOTI HAI..

Shi D.

KAMBAKHT...

Mere zakhmo ka haal tum jab puchhte ho ay dost ;
Nikamme hare ho kar fir bahene lagte hai..
Roke se bhi nahi rukte hai yeh ashq ay dost ;
Bin bole hi sab kuchh kahene lagte hai ..Kambakht..

JAI HO...

Glad to know that SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE won 8 oscar awards but very happy for SMILE PINKY..which also has won the oscar ..I am feeling quite proud for GULZAR,A R REHMAN and SUKHVINDER as they almost snatched the oscar from other nominees of oscar for the ORIGINAL SONG catagory.I am not at all excited for Denni Boyle and his crew for winning awards for SDM.Denni has selected a story of Indian origin,stars of india,music of india.I appriciate but still i dont understand why he has shown ONLY NEGATIVE INDIA.Our country is full of all these things.This is reality.I agree but dont we own anything good?Denni used India's poverty to sell his film.He used our stars,locations,music for making HIS dream come true and not any real slumdog's dream.It is purely a foreign movie.We need not to hop or to be BEGAANI SHAADI ME ABDULLA DIWANA. If it were with any yashraj,dharma ,amir khan or any other INDIAN banner,these jury must have rejected in qualifying round,for sure.Nothing more to pen for SDM.
Neither I have watched the SDM nor wish to watch.
I would prefer SMILE PINKY.At least ,its a APNEWALI documentary.

I would give full marks to DELHI 6.It shows hope in a humankind.

I dont intend to insult any perticular person at all. Everyone is free to express oneself and has a RIGHT TO WRITE .

Jai ho..

O MY LIFE.....

O my life...sometimes i am scared of you,
you show me colors, not all but few...
i dont know whether they are true..
despite i have to go through..
yes..i know, i am nothing without you....
o my life..sometimes i am scared of you.


Shi...D.