The day before yesterday,our family friend's 25 yrs old son ....... committed a suicide. Reason? Well, failure in love affair.The lad was loving a girl.The girl was also loving the boy but her parents refused their love story to proceed.As a result,the boy took sleeping pills and shifted from his residence for ever.We all are in a trauma..all are speechless..one of his friend said with a deep sorrow :" he was a very good guy, always ready to help others." The only bad thing in him was his anger.He never could control his anger.His mother said that before some days he visited all relatives one by one,as if to commit a suicide was preplanned.His father and sister are not in a position to tolerate this mishap.
I wonder that when this boy was taking sleeping pills,did not he think at least for a once about his parents,who dreamt a lot for their laadla 's future?Did not he think about his only and now lonely sister,for whom her brother was the Hero? The boy could have talked to any of his friends..why did not he trust anybody? Many questions are now will remain unanswered.
BUT today i think that his main problem was COMMUNICATION GAP.
I think Communication Gap is the biggest problem for ALL OF us.We dont trust each other so we dont trust ourselves also.Sometimes we are afraid of the society,sometimes friends..log kya kahenge???We dont have a habit to share.Sometimes we misunderstand eachother,sometimes we dont want to understand other's point of view..as if all are wrong..AND I AM THE BEST..
I think that many questions can be solved if sit together...if we listen to our beloveds patiently, no problem can last for longer..if we share our feelings with others,no COMMUNICATION GAP will be there , at least for us..
Lemme start this Communication ...I AM ready to share ..I AM ready to listen..are u?
